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..Ummm... Idk... You know I've heard people say that boys are never much close to their fathers... And i always wished to prove this wrong.. But now I feel it's actually a matter of fact... Idk why I always act so inconsiderate towards him despite he doing so much for all of us.. I sometimes whine why isn't he as same as my mom... But I realized I'm putting him under unrealistic expectations... He's his own different personality and I've his many of the traits but idk I hate that stuff... Many a times I hurt him so much during a small argument.. I can't control myself in anger and that sucks... Many people have told me to give chance to my dad, to consider his mental state too with all his work pressure.. But whenever I try to do so, something from the past comes up…
Hey, I am really sorry that you feel that way, it must be taxing for you and him. I am not sure if you just wanted to vent out or also looking for a perspective, I am sharing something with you if that helps, and if you just wanted to share then please ignore the below-given text. We sometimes want/ expect our loved ones to behave in a certain way and sometimes it is out of their personality + comfort zone if they are still trying we should give them the credit. Here accepting the person, will help you be better with yourself, you are angry at him for so many things you did not put in the chat, I can understand the anger. What is the use of 99 things a person is doing when they can't do one thing that you wanted? Accepting the person is trying and or Leading them to the way they can be there for you the way you want. I hope this helps, this is a long process things to get better.